At our Pure Bookkeeping planning week in Bali, Pete’s wife Trish was there with their gorgeous daughter Scarlett. She’s about 16 months old and although I was dying to take her from Pete and shower her with love, I knew that I couldn’t rush her. I had to be patient and win her over. I said to Pete, “Give me a day and she’ll be fine”. What was interesting is that it took much longer than I anticipated. In fact, it actually took a week! Slowly but surely she came around. My song for her for the week was “Incy, Wincy Spider” which I performed with all the necessary actions. Big arms stretched out as the rain was falling down and the sun coming out. To my delight, the day before we left, as I was singing that song for the umpteenth time, Scarlet started to mimic the actions with her little arms stretched out as far as she could. She laughed each time the song finished and stood there in anticipation with her fingers ready for the start of the next song. What a joy! My patience paid off.
Prospects can smell desperation a mile away and they will be wary. The trick to being calm and confident when you’re marketing is to do lots of it all the time and allow the process to happen without forcing it. Just like I did with beautiful Scarlett! Love to hear your thoughts, you can leave them below.